“You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same 


way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you 


can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, 


work on the mind. That's the only thing you should be trying 


to control.” -Elizabeth Gilbert

 Instead of affirming what you do not want in your life, affirm what you do want. The more energy you give to what isn't working, the more of that you will get.


What we focus on expands. 

Make a list of what you want in your life; but instead of writing "I want...."
write, "I will have...."

Your thought's will pull you into that direction. It is the Law of Attraction.

Our lives are of our design. We always have the power to create the life we want. This is your ride, no-body elses. For much too long, we have allowed other's opinions and judgement's to rule our lives; to make the decisions for us. We all have little voices in our heads from our mothers, fathers, teachers, bosses; Society. We have rolled all of these voices into why we can't, why we are not good enough, why we shouldn't. We have allowed these voices to create the barriers to our happiness. It is time to take ownership of your life, of your happiness. This Life is Your Gift. Be true to yourself and you will find the happiness you long for and deserve.

The Dance of the Cottonwood

Have you ever watched a piece of Cottonwood Tree flow through the air? It is a beautiful representation of life. The cottonwood flows where ever the air takes it. It flows up, it flows down, and side by side. It just goes the direction that the air moves it. There are no barriers while in the air, nothing to stop its flow. Eventually it may bump into something solid,  but it is so light and free that it lifts itself back up and flows again.Only does the cottonwood stop moving forward when it is no longer in the flow. The cottonwood has no preconceived notions of what life is about, nothing to hold it back from it's journey. The cottonwood is in the continual dance of life. The cottonwood does not resists the flow, as it lets the air take it naturally to its next path.

We can use the cottonwood as a wonderful example of a life without the barriers. Life is in constant flow. We would feel just as free and wonderful as the cottonwood if we would let go and flow with life. 

The Universe will always provide, all you have to do is clarify what it is that you want. 

Ego

Ego tells us many lies- we are better, we are right, our way is best, we are the smartest....Ego boost us up by putting others down. Ego does not love, Ego does not connect us; it pulls us apart. Ego seperates us from all others, Ego keeps us alone. Ego allows us to  treat others badly, Ego makes excuses for our bad behavior. Ego controls our decisions. Ego is a prison. 

Love

Love connects us. Love nourishes us; it feeds our soul. Love allows us to see past the faults of others; with the knowledge that we have all come from the same source. Love lifts the divider between You and Me. Love frees us, Love opens our eyes to the glories around us. Love is excepting, love heals, Love lifts you up, Love is the Light of God!

Love begins with you; love yourself. Once you can truly accept and love yourself, that love will spill over into everyone and everything you touch. We are all connected through love.